We Americans love
“heroes” – particularly if it features the little underdog who overcomes all
odds. I must confess that I love the
1993 movie RUDY, the story of a 5’6” 165-pound kid who dreamed of
playing at Notre Dame.
After years of hard
work and perseverance, Rudy got to play ten seconds of football in the last
game of his senior year. Rudy is a good
motivational story for young people, but we Americans misplace too much
importance on such situations. Rudy
never got to play a second in the NFL – he was too small and untalented.
Rudy became a symbol
with many sports awards named for him at both the high school and college
level. Rightly or wrongly his fame moved
him into many self-promotion enterprises, one of which (Ruby Nutrition) got him into financial trouble with the SEC.
But here is my
bottom line. Most successful people don’t spend their lives taking the highway
of most resistance. They find what
skills they are best at (which fortunately they usually like) and exploit them
with time and effort. If you don’t think
you’re good at anything – take skills, personality, and aptitude tests. They often open new pathways of lesser resistance.